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In this video I talk about texting that kills attraction and texting that pushes women away. They have done studies and found that women find men more attractive when they are uncertain about the man's feelings. They have also done other important studies in countries (including the US, Canada, UK, Germany, Israel and China) and they found that responsive men-- being men who text too much, initiate text messages, talk on the phone too much--are less attractive men in all of these countries without exception. All women, regardless of culture, ethnicity and background, find responsive men less attractive.
Remember, highly responsive men believe that the more they talk to a woman on the phone through text/messages, the more they will get the woman to commit to them and fall in love with them--this is an illusion and built on nothing more than the illusion of action.
These same responsive men believe that their constant communication will make the woman feel more secure and likely to stay in the relationship with them. In reality, all these men end up doing is creating the perception that they are desperate and needy and will give into the woman's demands. Then, slowly, over time, the woman loses attraction.
If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.
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Chris Canwell
@TheItYo7 months agoMen put too much value into women. If they don’t want to be bothered leave them alone. If she likes you you’ll hear from her. If you don’t hear from her that’s fine too. Love yourself more than you can love anybody. 155
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@mrdee24547 months agoI texted many women out of attraction as a teen. Now texting for me is strictly setting dates 71
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@averagestudent43587 months agoAttraction grows in space Less is more 47
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@mrcool6657 months agoWhen you want them, they will not want you. When you don't want them, then they'll want you. 26
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@blair54757 months agoI only use texting when I want to set dates. Keep conversations brief and get to the point 64
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@naturalbornkiller3617 months agoAs they say, opposite attracts. Women are talkative, responsive and submissive by nature. That's why if you text a lot or reach out to her often by other means, it mirrors their dominant traits, and gives off feminine energy. Masculine men are supposed to be mysterious, less responsive, and busy with their daily hustle. Not busy chasing women. ...14
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@beyuwallace7 months agoMystery is so important, it seems there’s always a unseen battle when dealing with women and that’s the interesting part and it keeps you on your toes even when things are good you have to think ahead 8
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@TheRmm19767 months agoThis is especially tough when you meet a girl that you really like, and are really into, who is a 9 or 10 to you... Makes it hard NOT to respond and keep the texting going if she wants to text. Because you have fear of chasing her off if you're too non-responsive. If you're only doing this with a girl who's a 7 or 8, it's much easier to not respond. ...13
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@derrickjordan59697 months agoI call a girl before the first date (ams advice). It definitely works! Gotta it keep the phone call light on topics, quick 10-15min & you have to be the one to get off the phone! She needs to talk to you on the phone first, it’s a great indicator if the date will go well or not. After the first date use texting only to set up dates. YOU NEED TO STAND OUT FROM ALL THE OTHER MEN WHO ARE TO SCARED TO CALL! ...6
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@rodneytorres14103 months agoThis guy helps us men so much, many thanks from Puerto Rico. 🙏🏼 1
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@tlamelokgosimalebe31197 months agoIf a lady likes you she will never be bothered by how much you text her .. If she doesn't like you,she will never even bother herself talking to you It's either she likes you or she doesn't;it ends there ...29
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@maxdanielstrauss77357 months agoBeen listening to him for years and I swear we all need to hear this from time to time. Love your work 12
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@brown_recidivist7 months agoBroads need to know that you have a life outside of them. When you're readily available, it shows that you have nothing better to do but be talking to her all day. Plus, you will eventually have nothing to talk about. The conversation is gonna drag on painfully and slowly and next thing you know you achieved next level simp status and you're texting her, "What are we" lol ...11
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@jacobs30317 months agoJust stay single dont bother not worth the hassle. Im 30 and no interest in women anymore. When i was teenager and early twenties I was but the desire has gone. 3
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@Anth_D7 months agoNot sure about this one Chris! Surprising girls and throwing them off what is the norm can come through a phone call. 2
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@AR-xl6ym7 months agoAll you have to do is mirror and don't text back straight away. Its that simple. You cant just set dates and ignore a girl anymore. It isnt 1957 anymore and they don't like it. 6
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@hifikepunyemichael28917 months agoWe had been chatting ever since 2022 and yesterday I was told that she doesn't want to be selfish but would like to let me free. That hurt so much,as I'm deeply inlove with her😢. Buy I will be okay.
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@jimmoefoe14717 months agoI bag every single women when I call them lol. Calling them is my goal. After we get on a call, they know what and who to expect adn they just get comfier. 6
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@italiancapo77 months agoShe would text me throughout the day & send memes through IG. She would get upset that I didn’t respond for hours. I’m working woman! She would get upset that I never text her first or text asking her about her day. She broke up & said I never tried & never cared! wtf???!!! 😳 😡 ...6
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@FANNYclNADYN7 months agoI don’t know - my wife said to me she feels more lonely since I have cut my texting basically to zero in order to outplay another guy she have tried to monkey brunch 3 year ago, I think I’ve slightly overdone it, my verdict - there is need for balance to be in place or she will think you have gotten too cold ...2
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@user-zn1vv4qn6y7 months ago you mentioned a country never exist 5
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@Tommy-mh3jd7 months agoif you text a girl too much she is not going to reply to your texts or she might even leave you unread and she will start cancelling dates she will say things like im really tired or i don't really feel like meeting up. if you text your girlfriend too much she will dump you she will say something like im not ready for a relationship or i need some space. really it happens don't text a girl you like too much ...
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@ingrained2train7 months agoCrazy how women respond when we’re indifferent I told my girlfriend last week that I dont need her And it turned her on like crazy 4
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@SDRockman7 months agoYou can't sit there when you meet face to face and not say anything....
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@JoseLopez-wf6bx7 months agoHey Chris. Can you get a girl back after she found out that I cheated ? I messed up big time and I want her back 1
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@qp43672 months agoDid you give in and take her back is what I would like to know? He's a G either way
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@Vnp997 months agoMy girlfriend, now ex... She once told me "dont pretend like you care" And it hurt me and i did cry cuz i did care abt her a lot... And recently i texted, sent some voice messages. Been 5days and she didnt reply. So i texted back and argued abt other things. Hoping that she comes back. Or atleast that she shud feel she lost me... What do i do? ...1
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@boubakobayse79293 months agoGoofy .there's no such thing as israel .there's only palestine 1
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@TheItYo7 months agoMen put too much value into women. If they don’t want to be bothered leave them alone. If she likes you you’ll hear from her. If you don’t hear from her that’s fine too. Love yourself more than you can love anybody. 155
@
@mrdee24547 months agoI texted many women out of attraction as a teen. Now texting for me is strictly setting dates 71
@
@averagestudent43587 months agoAttraction grows in space Less is more 47
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@mrcool6657 months agoWhen you want them, they will not want you. When you don't want them, then they'll want you. 26
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@blair54757 months agoI only use texting when I want to set dates. Keep conversations brief and get to the point 64
@
@naturalbornkiller3617 months agoAs they say, opposite attracts. Women are talkative, responsive and submissive by nature. That's why if you text a lot or reach out to her often by other means, it mirrors their dominant traits, and gives off feminine energy. Masculine men are supposed to be mysterious, less responsive, and busy with their daily hustle. Not busy chasing women. ...14
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@beyuwallace7 months agoMystery is so important, it seems there’s always a unseen battle when dealing with women and that’s the interesting part and it keeps you on your toes even when things are good you have to think ahead 8
@
@TheRmm19767 months agoThis is especially tough when you meet a girl that you really like, and are really into, who is a 9 or 10 to you... Makes it hard NOT to respond and keep the texting going if she wants to text. Because you have fear of chasing her off if you're too non-responsive. If you're only doing this with a girl who's a 7 or 8, it's much easier to not respond. ...13
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@derrickjordan59697 months agoI call a girl before the first date (ams advice). It definitely works! Gotta it keep the phone call light on topics, quick 10-15min & you have to be the one to get off the phone! She needs to talk to you on the phone first, it’s a great indicator if the date will go well or not. After the first date use texting only to set up dates. YOU NEED TO STAND OUT FROM ALL THE OTHER MEN WHO ARE TO SCARED TO CALL! ...6
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@rodneytorres14103 months agoThis guy helps us men so much, many thanks from Puerto Rico. 🙏🏼 1
@
@tlamelokgosimalebe31197 months agoIf a lady likes you she will never be bothered by how much you text her .. If she doesn't like you,she will never even bother herself talking to you It's either she likes you or she doesn't;it ends there ...29
@
@maxdanielstrauss77357 months agoBeen listening to him for years and I swear we all need to hear this from time to time. Love your work 12
@
@brown_recidivist7 months agoBroads need to know that you have a life outside of them. When you're readily available, it shows that you have nothing better to do but be talking to her all day. Plus, you will eventually have nothing to talk about. The conversation is gonna drag on painfully and slowly and next thing you know you achieved next level simp status and you're texting her, "What are we" lol ...11
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@jacobs30317 months agoJust stay single dont bother not worth the hassle. Im 30 and no interest in women anymore. When i was teenager and early twenties I was but the desire has gone. 3
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@Anth_D7 months agoNot sure about this one Chris! Surprising girls and throwing them off what is the norm can come through a phone call. 2
@
@AR-xl6ym7 months agoAll you have to do is mirror and don't text back straight away. Its that simple. You cant just set dates and ignore a girl anymore. It isnt 1957 anymore and they don't like it. 6
@
@hifikepunyemichael28917 months agoWe had been chatting ever since 2022 and yesterday I was told that she doesn't want to be selfish but would like to let me free. That hurt so much,as I'm deeply inlove with her😢. Buy I will be okay.
@
@jimmoefoe14717 months agoI bag every single women when I call them lol. Calling them is my goal. After we get on a call, they know what and who to expect adn they just get comfier. 6
@
@italiancapo77 months agoShe would text me throughout the day & send memes through IG. She would get upset that I didn’t respond for hours. I’m working woman! She would get upset that I never text her first or text asking her about her day. She broke up & said I never tried & never cared! wtf???!!! 😳 😡 ...6
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@FANNYclNADYN7 months agoI don’t know - my wife said to me she feels more lonely since I have cut my texting basically to zero in order to outplay another guy she have tried to monkey brunch 3 year ago, I think I’ve slightly overdone it, my verdict - there is need for balance to be in place or she will think you have gotten too cold ...2
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@user-zn1vv4qn6y7 months ago you mentioned a country never exist 5
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@Tommy-mh3jd7 months agoif you text a girl too much she is not going to reply to your texts or she might even leave you unread and she will start cancelling dates she will say things like im really tired or i don't really feel like meeting up. if you text your girlfriend too much she will dump you she will say something like im not ready for a relationship or i need some space. really it happens don't text a girl you like too much ...
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@ingrained2train7 months agoCrazy how women respond when we’re indifferent I told my girlfriend last week that I dont need her And it turned her on like crazy 4
@
@SDRockman7 months agoYou can't sit there when you meet face to face and not say anything....
@
@JoseLopez-wf6bx7 months agoHey Chris. Can you get a girl back after she found out that I cheated ? I messed up big time and I want her back 1
@
@qp43672 months agoDid you give in and take her back is what I would like to know? He's a G either way
@
@Vnp997 months agoMy girlfriend, now ex... She once told me "dont pretend like you care" And it hurt me and i did cry cuz i did care abt her a lot... And recently i texted, sent some voice messages. Been 5days and she didnt reply. So i texted back and argued abt other things. Hoping that she comes back. Or atleast that she shud feel she lost me... What do i do? ...1
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@boubakobayse79293 months agoGoofy .there's no such thing as israel .there's only palestine 1
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